Its seems to be a week of men and women talking about relationshipsnand more about ending relationships than starting them. It is difficult when one is in this position in life. This is my spin on a few situations that have come up for discussion, but first a tip, the only relationship you should work on is the one with you. Devices will fall into place.
I have had a few discussions with couples which have been together for many, many years, and now they come to the realization that there really isn’t a relationship Escorts. These were busy for years raising the kids and taking good care of careers. Now that the kids have cultivated and the career is in it’s final levels, they realize they stopped building on the relationships in the past. It feels as if they are managing a new person in some ways.
When it comes to a married relationship and children, it is important to look after your relationship with yourself first, your relationships with your spouse second, and the children will be sorted. We often times flip all those upside down producing a mess at the end of the day. There are people that once in a relationship they loose themselves, giving themselves to the partner.
A partnership is two people it’s unlikely that any, a healthy relationship is two healthy partners, it’s unlikely that any. Once anyone is lost, the resentments and frustration start to build because of the disillusionment they feel for not having done what they wanted in life. The finger starts to get sharp at their partner, because they obviously could not read their mind, or read their signs of what they wanted. No wonder the partnership is on the rocks.
It is so important to know who you are doing the partnership, and feeling comfortable with that. In a healthy relationship you feel safe and supported in being who you truly are. Never hand your power to someone else, it will only end in heart pain. The people we choose to have relationships with are those that hold a mirror up for us to look in, for us to learn from. If we choose to look for responsibility rather than try looking in the mirror we create blocks not only for ourselves but also in our relationships.
If there is a problem within our relationship, there is a problem within the relationship with ourselves. This is not to say that every relationship can work, in fact just the opposite, sometimes the mirror is showing you that you deserve much more, or that you have outgrown this relationship. That’s not the culprit each other, to show you it is time for them to move on in life.